Type 1: The Friend
this is the type of girl who you can jam with and talk with. The better a friend she is the more you trust and the more you tell her. A friend may develop into more and if she does she will most likely be a long term partner because the understanding of each other and the trust you have.
The issue with friends though is that it is easy to mistake the friendship and the comftability for more and F*** it all up.
Type 2: The Girlfriend
2.1: The show girl
the majority of girls start of their relationships with characteristics of a show girl, some develop before their characteristics show sadly many remain the same or evolve into Type 2.4.
This is the girl that is with you when she sees fit when things are going alright she’s got your back and is there for you but when things start going wrong or the going gets tough you can’t count on her to stay by your side. Hence she is there for show.
This is the type of girlfriend who when she is with you will pretend she is your wifey, but when she out in the raves other dudes are buying her drinks.
Also the type of girl that if you aren’t satisfying emotionally will not wait around for long to find a new companion.
And if the sex isn’t great or she isn’t getting enough do not be surprised if she cheats or breaks up with you and is with a new guy a week later. (How many guys do you know that have been with a girl with a man or who just got out of a relationship??? how many girls do you know that have been that girl)
2.2: Almost Wifey
she is in it for the long term and has your back in most situations. She looks out for you and wants what is best for you, supports you and is good to you.
The thing which stops them from being a wifey is that they sometimes come so caught up in you and dependant on your attention and love they forget who they are and the qualities they possess and can at times have insecure tendencies as a result of it, and if a guy comes along and pressures enough she can be swayed.
2.3: The Wife
Got your back through everything, supports you through the good and the bad, trusts you and wants what’s best for you, loves you and knows her value to you. As a result trusts you fully (well almost).
2.4: The “I have nothing better to do” type.
This is the type of girl who is with you for the sake of being with you. She is looking and waiting for a better option, the type of girl that really cannot bear to be alone, usually insecure although many of them put up nice big fronts.
Similar to a show girl in the sense that she is ready and willing to do her thing. A lot of these girls will not cheat but they will line up their options and make a quick transfer (move to the new man and keep it moving) or a loan move LOL (she will get the new guy and will quickly realise after a couple of weeks that this is not a good life choice and be back)
this type of girl can be commonly found at the end of a long term relationship or in a short term relationship that is fruitless.
was either a show girl or almost a wifey and will one day return to be one or the other.
Type 3: The Link
3.1: The Common Link
is the type of girl that may not mind being one of a few links probably because you are the same to her. this kinda girl is smart and cautious so don’t expect her to slip up easily. she usually knows how to play the game. she can go 2 ways she can become a serious link or a casual link.
3.2: The Serious link
this girl here can become your friend or your girlfriend. she will generally be the kind of girl that will naturally command your attention and be your main focus. the thing that will probably determine which way she goes is the balance between the sex and the companionship.
good sex & companionship = girlfriend
good sex & decent companionship = no evolution or possibly into a showgirl
good companionship = friend
bad sex = termination :-( lol
3.3: The Casual link
this girl is the girl that will want to see you from time to time probably because she has bigger fish to fry or she is just stuck on you and every now and again need a top up of some sort.
Generally the girl you talk to that has no future in your life.
