The Different Types Of Women

Type 1: The Friend

this is the type of girl who you can jam with and talk with. The better a friend she is the more you trust and the more you tell her. A friend may develop into more and if she does she will most likely be a long term partner because the understanding of each other and the trust you have.


The issue with friends though is that it is easy to mistake the friendship and the comftability for more and F*** it all up.


Type 2: The Girlfriend


2.1: The show girl


the majority of girls start of their relationships with characteristics of a show girl, some develop before their characteristics show sadly many remain the same or evolve into Type 2.4.


This is the girl that is with you when she sees fit when things are going alright she’s got your back and is there for you but when things start going wrong or the going gets tough you can’t count on her to stay by your side. Hence she is there for show.


This is the type of girlfriend who when she is with you will pretend she is your wifey, but when she out in the raves other dudes are buying her drinks.


Also the type of girl that if you aren’t satisfying emotionally will not wait around for long to find a new companion.


And if the sex isn’t great or she isn’t getting enough do not be surprised if she cheats or breaks up with you and is with a new guy a week later. (How many guys do you know that have been with a girl with a man or who just got out of a relationship??? how many girls do you know that have been that girl) 


2.2: Almost Wifey


she is in it for the long term and has your back in most situations. She looks out for you and wants what is best for you, supports you and is good to you. 


The thing which stops them from being a wifey is that they sometimes come so caught up in you and dependant on your attention and love they forget who they are and the qualities they possess and can at times have insecure tendencies as a result of it, and if a guy comes along and pressures enough she can be swayed.


2.3: The Wife
Got your back through everything, supports you through the good and the bad, trusts you and wants what’s best for you, loves you and knows her value to you. As a result trusts you fully (well almost).


2.4: The “I have nothing better to do” type.


This is the type of girl who is with you for the sake of being with you. She is looking and waiting for a better option, the type of girl that really cannot bear to be alone, usually insecure although many of them put up nice big fronts.


Similar to a show girl in the sense that she is ready and willing to do her thing. A lot of these girls will not cheat but they will line up their options and make a quick transfer (move to the new man and keep it moving) or a loan move LOL (she will get the new guy and will quickly realise after a couple of weeks that this is not a good life choice and be back)


this type of girl can be commonly found at the end of a long term relationship or in a short term relationship that is fruitless.


was either a show girl or almost a wifey and will one day return to be one or the other.


Type 3: The Link


3.1: The Common Link


is the type of girl that may not mind being one of a few links probably because you are the same to her. this kinda girl is smart and cautious so don’t expect her to slip up easily. she usually knows how to play the game. she can go 2 ways she can become a serious link or a casual link.


3.2: The Serious link


this girl here can become your friend or your girlfriend. she will generally be the kind of girl that will naturally command your attention and be your main focus. the thing that will probably determine which way she goes is the balance between the sex and the companionship.


good sex & companionship = girlfriend
good sex & decent companionship = no evolution or possibly into a showgirl
good companionship = friend
bad sex = termination :-( lol


3.3: The Casual link


this girl is the girl that will want to see you from time to time probably because she has bigger fish to fry or she is just stuck on you and every now and again need a top up of some sort.


Generally the girl you talk to that has no future in your life.

Loving The Leopard Look

Cougars

"An older woman who frequents clubs in order to score with a much younger man. Cougars are gaining in popularity -- particularly the true hotties -- as young men find not only a sexual high, but many times a chick with her shit together."


So what do you guys think of an older lady dating or going out with a younger man?
Personally for me at my age of 21 I cant date anyone younger than me at all and infact I want an older guy like 25+ but the most common age for a cougar is 40+...now when im 40+ i wouldn't mind me some young meat neither, its exciting and im sure its a great confidence boost and the sex must be crazzzzzyyyy! looool It keeps them youthful and especially if you've been in all these relationships in the past that never worked out and you have kids that are grown; you've been there done the wifey and mother thing so now its back to "me time" why not go get yourself a toyboy that you can play with? 
I think the ages shouldn't be so drastic like Hulk Hogans ex wife Linda who dated her daughters friend who was 20 and she was 50 I mean c'morrrn Lind #WhereTheyDoDatAt?


Some nice cougar couples are: 

• Vivica. A Fox-46 & slimm-27
• Demi Moore-47 & Ashton Kutcher- 32         
• Janet Jackson- 45 & Wissam Al Man- 35
• Madonna-52 & Brahim Zaibit- 24
• Mariah Carey-39  & Nick Cannon-27

all hail the Queen B!

Mrs Beyonce- Knowles Carter hmmm where do I even start? I grew up with her on my TV when she was in Destinys Child and look at what she has accomplished and how far she has come now from being an actress, becoming a solo artist and getting married...she is talented, beautiful, a perfectionist, Iconic and an Idol.  Her I am…World Tour DVD has become the best-selling music video DVD of 2010. Selling 132,000 copies, the DVD has gone double-platinum and has sold more than Rush's Beyond the Lighted Stage and Michael Jacksons Live in Bucharest: The Dangerous Tour. *standing ovation B*

"Beyonce's I Am…World Tour DVD Outsells All Other Concert DVDs"

 

what's your favourite album, song, movie from B? I don't know where to start as there are soooo many but I love smash into you, hello, upgrade u, yes, waiting (that's just a few)

Fresh Talent- Jessie J

One word....AMAZING! Jessie J is an upcoming musician that is 22years of age from Essex. I love love love her voice and the uniqueness of her control, there's nothing better than a musician that knows their voice and controls it to perfection. She makes every song she sings her own and you just want more to listen to... Her first single 'do it like a dude' was wicked kinda reminds me off Ciara- like a boy & Beyonce- if I were a boy as it all has the meaning that we females ante fools, we know what you get up to and can do everything fellas can do and better!! She has written songs for Chris Brown, Christina Aguilera and Justin Timberlake who even called her the 'best singer in the world'- but who are we to argue? I'm giving credit were credit is due and seriously she HOTTTT!!!

The video below is my personal favourite from Jessie that she wrote herself called 'Big White Room' take a listen and see exactly what I'm on about!

One Night Stand

I am currently in love with this song but on a serious note have you ever thought of having a one night stand whether your in a relationship or not? You see the advantage of being single and doing so is that you can have ur goodies and happily go about your business knowing there was no strings attached BUT when your comitted it turns into a whole other issue such as what is causin you to cheat? have you lost interest? is he/she maybe creepin?

relationship advice from 101: If u feel they're cheating and u didn't see anything or found any evidence, DON'T confront them, just pay attention


Tell me your thoughts

Miss. Dior x

Rick Ross...BOWSS!

Now I love me some Rick Ross and that beard...lard gard! I'm a sucker for a decent looking man with facial hair and the darker the berry the sweeter I get HA! Okay anyways i've loved Ricks since whenever and in awe with Teflon Don that is one of my favourite hip hop albums..lovin, I'm not a star, Aston Martin Music, MC Hammer, B.M.F & Live fast, Die young. You know its a good album when you love more than half the songs on the album!


Ricky Rozay fans standup........tell me some of your favourite songs or lyrics!

Bossss!

" I'm not a star, somebody lied, I got a pistol in the car, a 45 

If I'd die today, remember me like John Lennon 

Bury the louis, I'm talkin all brown linen "

Is Plastic Surgery Really Necessary? (I think not)

Okay so Hollywood is known for plastic surgery, botox, fake boobs, fake teeth, fake fake fakeeeeee....(u get the point) not just Hollywood of course but it is surgery city as I like to call it. But who started all this craziness and is it really that necessary to want to look young, picture perfect and like have a stone face that doesn't move? well due to living in the 21st Century and having media be such a massive part of society today I guess so! I feel like if your really insecure and it will make you happy then go ahead but it NEVER stops there does it, once you do one thing then you'll want to do something else like get bigger breasts or butt implants...this tryna look "perfect" wont last forever and their faces always end up lookin worst than before just look at these pictures below!! Heidi really didn't look that bad and now she looks like a playboy toy and Lil Kim personally I think she was hotter than.... and now looks not so hot as she looks like a melted barbie!

Heidi Montag: lips, nose, face lift......

donatello versace: lips, botox, eye lift    

lil kim: lips, nose, cheek bones

Michael Jackson: nose, hair implants, eyebrows, lips

  *HAPPY NEW YEAR DOLLS*

I had a wonderful end to my year and a great entry to, looking forward to what this year holds for me!
I went out with my girls for dinner then to a bar then took it to the clubs to get dowwwwwnnnnnn!!!! wott

fun fun fun....what did u guys do?

I love poems, sayings & quotes

I am in love with words that paint a vivid picture in my head and have me thinking and guessing, I can spend all day reading any of the above three and really appreciate and adore people that have the talent to write... below I am sharing a poem from a very good friend of mine named Joanna aka Uniq  who you can follow on twitter @uniqthepoet or on facebook add uniq the poet who is an absolute genius in writing poems that speak to you and have you thinking. below is one of her great ones.....


Wait A Second....

Jheez!

Wait a second!

I know I'm not a man and I know you ain't my man

But I saw you over there and my first word was damn!

A fine guy like you should have some sort of ban

The pole in front of me almost became my best friend

Truth be told I ain't thinking personality

Could you be my Maxwell and kick a lil' something?

Don't worry I'm single so I come drama free

And I'll do anything to keep you coming trust me

These are the thoughts that are running through my mind

But if I stood in front of him the words I wouldn't find

Thank God my bus came so my heart rate could chill

Moments like these feel so surreal

But.....

Wait a second

It's the man that finds the woman

Wait a second

Don't let lust catch you slipping

Wait a second

The exterior isn't everything

So I'll do the wise thing and wait a second......

Snaps of my 2010 memories.....

me & my brownin

laughing as per usual..

Just camera shy..oh please!

Our meal at seventeen

world cup season

pole dancing lessons

me & my lighty

Ghana Independence

sex sells!

V.day with the girls

my 21st b'day

bestie n I

me n ants

Champagne Campaign

poppin champagne like we won a championship game

dolllllls

Dre n' I

countdown to 2011

wow this year has gone sooo quick, I feel like it kinda started as I can still remember summer... I never ever make new years resolutions as I never stick to it however much I try so there's no point at all. some of my #2010memories are my house in canary wharf, the O2 arena, My Brazilian hair loool, Nay and I, My girls, Bars, B'days, the betrayals and the forgivings...

So tell me guys what's your best 2010 memories and your New Years Resoloutions?

my dolls

These are a few of the dolls I love so im giving credit where credit is due...Love them ever sooo much all for differnt reasons!

Sister from another Mister

My Beautiful Bestie..I love love love this chica shes literally my walking diary and heartbeat. Shes the one friend I can call on at all hours of the morning and she'll be there. shes the missing part of the oneka clan. Our days in canary wharf will definitely be memories that will live on..I love and admire your growth and how you've changed and blossomed to a woman! You deserve everything life throws at you and may our secret come to pass...shhh

Black Barbie

Black Barbie dressed in Bvlgari, shes trying to leave in somebody's Ferrari...lol this is the bitch i loved to hate in college but LOVE her now and shes definitely one of my favourite dolls. Shes a show stopper and i admire her dream of one day being a Paris Hilton and having her tinkerbell. Our meetings in the morning to go to college and our missing of class just to get breaky at fatboyz cafe, riding round with dast and sitting in the canteen dissing everyone's clothes haha we were bad arses loool.. we've come along way doll and many more years to come  x

House Queen Justtt

My Justy-Just I fucking love this whore haha! I can never not laugh when im with her or on the phone to her and she has the juiciest gossip for me always. She tells me how it is when i need advice which I adore like when i wanted to change my name she died of laughter for like 20minutes..that of course was the answer alone that it was a stupid idea... Summer and bars was ours this year and I can not wait for many more summers and holidays away with you and the rest. love u puddin xx

Twin A

ahhh my Twin A where do i start? Iv'e never had a friend that is soooo like me omg its kinda scary...the jokes are unstoppable when were together...the memories are soooo much I honestly don't know what to say but u are very special to me and been there for me at my hardest moments which i'll never forget and love u so much forever..haha u even covered up for me my getaway holiday to amsterdam..everyone that has met u loves u cos ur bubbly bubbly ur so dam bubbly HA! your a sweetheart and I hope we stay close forever even though at times we go through roller coasters xx

Movies....

"for colored girls"

So I just got back from watching little Fockers starring Ben Stiller, Jessica Alba and Robert de Niro just to name a few and it was ok I would rate it a 5/10... I'm more into romance and comedy and especially black movies like set it off, the wood and all Tyler Perry movies such as Madea goes to jail, Madeas family reunion and the current one that I recently  fell in love again with namely "for colored girls" which was so heart felt and emotional...it is definitely one of my all time favourites now

what type of movies are you interested in?

                

Chris Brown Vs. Raz B (and his rape accusations)

sooo on twitter this evening there has been this bantering going back and forth between chris brezzy and raz b which apparently started off by razb saying sumin about rihanna and then it ended up leading into his gay accusation against marques houston and chris stokes that Raz B has been claiming for quite a while now saying they raped him, bumed him and made him give them head afew times in the past by force....hmmm now I believe unless u ante crazy or psychotic you wouldn't just make up a lie like that for no reason and on top of that name drop people in it. I think people just ante taking it that seriously if its true and maybe thats cos he ante to humble about it so it don't make people sympathetic that's what i think anyway

what are your view on this bantering tonight and what Raz B has been saying happened to him in the past?

I love me some Jayz #guiltypleasure

" Can't deny me, why would you want to 
You need me, why don't you try me 
Baby you want to, believe me, Hov' "

what's your favourite JayZ song or verse? share with me dolls

Reality Shows!!

I hate to admit it but I am such a reality show freak! These are the ones that i can think of off the top of my head....
The Hills which I died for and then they had to finish the show with the most stupidest ending ever (greatttt!!), Runs house..nothing more special than family life ay, Lisaraye- The Real Mcoy love her shes a boss bitch!!, Lala's full court wedding..I love love and love that was romantic, Running with Russel Simmons..now that I did not like for some reason its quite boring, What Chilli Wants..hmm again a tad to despreate for me but shes cute, Basketball wives..now that I love Drama, Gossip & Cat fights..meow perrrfffeect I love and breath this show at the minute, The Real housewives of Atlanta again Drama and cat fights..love it, Jersey Shore..I love me some guidettes & grenades HA!, Brandy & Ray J- a family business..I actually love Ray j haha, again its one of my shows im currently watching and like. Kourtney & Khloe take Miami..i love these slhore bags, Baldwin Hills..those young rich bitches yup i loved it, Monica: still standing- i enjoyed watching her journey to making her album...shes a hott mama! Frankie & Neffe...hahah could they get anymore ghetto, emotional and crazier?...Nicki Minaj: my time now...loved her that lil bit more....and last but not least my all time favourite dolls and fashionistas Keeping up with the Kardashians I am in awe with that family and love them especially Khloe!

I told you i was a reality show freak..*warning* Now these are the shows I can remember right now and I know there's more..but if your a reality show freak like me and its not on my list above please inform me so I can watch more and tell me some of ur favourites even if its some of the ones I have already mentioned..
Ta-Ta xx

Water is just as thick as Blood

      "Blood may be thicker than water, but Love is thicker than everything"


hey dolls & dudes,
so I have sooo many friends that i adore, admire and love as we all do and a lot of them have been (hate to say it) better than some family members in terms of loyalty, respect and to share those secrets we all keep and need to tell someone. I know we have to be loyal to family of course but we were created and automatically given the family we are in, whereas our friends and loved ones that we have chosen to be in our lives ourselves are more special in a sense as we have liked something about that person and fell in love with these people and decided to trust and let them have and share a purpose with us in our lives. I am very happy to have a god family unit and very blessed to have the people I call my friends.


so as that saying "blood is thicker than water goes" im sorry but we'll have to agree to disagree.

Love OR Money

hey dolls,
so i've been thinking about this for a bit now and especially after watching real housewives of Atlanta and sheree got asked this question and she said 60-40 to money cos she dont want no broke arse man baiscally..loool, what do you guys think? which one is worth more to you?

Love ante the same like the old days when our parents grew up, no one really gets married and everyone is having kids out of wedlock so due to this and society would you prefer the good ol' Money honey or Love above it all?

I would love to get married some day and have my kids and career and live happily ever after but what are the likes of that as the media and society don't really create awareness for this ?

anyway let me know your thoughts

Dior x